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Initiating intimacy can feel daunting, even when we’ve been with our partners for decades… That’s why we included a guide on how to find your Initiation Style in our book, $ex Talks, as well as a FREE digital workbook with every purchase — so you can get the most out of your $ex Talks experience! #initiationstyles#initiateintimacy#tipsforintimacy#relationshipadvice#adviceforcouples#betterintimacy Initiation Styles Tips For Couples Relationship Advice

Welcome to part 3 of our “Worst Ways To Initiate” series! Today we’re talking about the notorious “Slumber Stopper”. They’ve had all day to make a move, but for some reason they wait until you’re drifting off to sleep. The way you and your partner are initiating can affect so many different areas of your relationship. If your partner is initiating poorly, it can lead to low libido, loss of attraction, infrequent s*x, a decrease in non-sexual physical intimacy, and resentment… All that to say, initiation is much more important than most couples realize! We have a very special something coming your way that will be a major game-changer for your initiation frustrations. Remember to let your partner get their beauty sleep, because s*x is a lot hotter when you’re well-rested. Head to our l!nk in bi0 to sign up for our priority notification list so you can be the first to hear about our latest announcements and our exclusive discounts 👀 #i#initiationstylesi#intimacyforcouplesi#intimatemomentsn#notafanr#relationshipthingspart3

What little thing does your partner do that you appreciate? 💞 #oliviarodrigo #littlethings #vanessaandxander #longtermrelationship #marriedlife #connection #funnycouple #relationshiphumor Things I notice Pay attention Relationship humor

We just love when they dance. 😉 💃 Love, Madi, Rose, and Emma (The social team) #keepdancing #funnycouple #vanessaandxander #vmtherapy #trending #socialmedia Never Give Up Dancing couple Moments in married life

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Okay, this one hurt. And no, it didn’t make ANYONE want to mate (As you can tell from the look on Vanessa’s face) 😂 #matingdance #impressions #coupleshumor #funnyanimals #dance #humor #havefun #funnyvids Mating Dance Impression Birds of planet earth Dating tips

What do YOU want your partner to overhear? #listenup #volumeon #eavesdroppers #inthebedroom #forcouples #forpartners #betterinbed #vmtherapy #moreforeplay Overheard Test your partner Conversation starters for couples

How often do you find yourself stuck reminiscing about the past? Thinking about how close you and your partner used to feel, the butterflies that swarmed your stomach while you were getting ready to see them, the effort you used to put into your relationship… yet somehow all that effort felt… effortless? Acknowledging the relationship rut you’ve fallen into is hard, but what if getting out of your rut was not only easy, but FUN? That’s where The S*x Challenge comes in. When you join The S*x Challenge, you get an email every day, for 30 days, containing… ✅ A Sensual Activity — an activity based around communication, touch, or f0replay (because sometimes the hottest moments happen with your clothes on!). ✅ A Sexual Activity — an R-rated assignment (but it’s not always !ntercourse!). To make the deal even sweeter, we decided to throw in Rediscovering Us: Intimacy And S*x For Parents ($199 value!) as a free bonus gift when you invest in your relationship with The S*x Challenge. (Because parents deserve playtime too!) Head to our l!nk in bi0 to sign up for The S*x Challenge and get Rediscovering Us ($199 value) for FREE! #vanes#vanessaandxandere#vmtherapyy#loveyourrelationshipi#marriagetipsn#balancedrelationshipsd#buildingtogetheri#emotionalconnectionationship moments Long-term relationship Connect with your partner

Comment if you want to hear more about what we do in our relationship to to keep intimacy a priority! #forcouples #couplestherapy #relationshiptok #intimacy #grwm #marriedlife Get Ready With Me Advice For Couples Relationship Tips Relationship Therapist